It really ain’t like that. I’m sorry. But we know our men can
act like big babies sometimes. They want so much attention from us, some of
them even get jealous if give the babies too much attention. They play the
video games, watch the sports for hours. Then when they finish amusing
themselves, they seek the woman to play house under the covers.
Now men of power play games that are spiked with adrenaline
and fueled by testosterone. They end up having a pissing contest to ascertain who
is boss. They start wars while they hide in heavily armed compounds, commanding
on a red phone, while watching the action via Skpe. They send our youth out to play soldiers. Mothers
lose their sons, wives their husbands. After many die, they call off the war
and try to move in on the enemy and take control of their land. Look at the
history it’s been done over and over. They go exploring and discover inhabited lands
and take over. Went to Africa and stole the people and made them slaves. Came
to America and hoodwinked the Indians. Went
to the planet Pandora and to mine Unobtanium, oh that was the Avatar Movie. But hey I can see the earth people going to
another planet and taking it over.
This isn’t a male bashing forum, so if you
can get pass the following poem I may offer some compliments and praises.
Wet
Dreams
5/28/09
Barbaric
savages,
devouring
pigs,
supercilious
tyrants,
sucking
the riches from nature’s nation,
earthly
malfunctions
the
cost of greed.
Delusions
of grandiose
stroking
inferior penis
masturbating
with ostentatious fantasies,
of
victimize pacifist
who
are intimidated,
offended
by
the bloodshed of the innocent,
righteous
souls.
Who
outlaw Pray in school,
Pray
for peace
and
engage in war
for
climatic
satisfaction.
The power of Viagra
I am a woman and I see men with woman eyes. There are men that
behave uncaring and without thoughtfulness. There are woman that act just the
same, self centered. Men know what excites woman, turn us on. Like tomorrow
February 14. If they can’t buy their lady a nice piece of jewelry, he can get a
card, some flowers or chocolate of all of it, and if you’re one of those men
that has a woman supporting you, then find some paper a pen and write a love
letter. If can’t find the words, go on Google and find some love poems and copy
one that fits. Don’t copy, paste and print, write in your handwriting. Better
yet memorize it and recite over candle light dinner. Oh my how sweet that would
be.
The majority of the men I know are good men. They stand by
their women, they help raise the children. I know good men that cook, clean,
wash clothes and goes food shopping. That was my ex; he was good that way, if
he didn’t abused drugs it might have worked.
Like I mentioned in my last post “From Virgin to Bitch and All
in between, http://silentlyheardonce.blogspot.com/2012/02/from-virgin-to-bitch-and-all-in-between.html?spref=bl
You can tell if the man’s momma was good to him by the way he
treats his woman. I remember when I was in my twenties and this woman in the
PTA use to run home so she could lay out her husband’s clothes for work in the
afternoons. He would come home around two in the morning and she would get her
kids up so they could all eat dinner together. At 2 am I said. She was crazy.
His momma did that for him and his wife kept it up. Ladies you cripple your
sons if you do everything for him. I know you want that lazy ass bum son of
yours to move out when he get old enough. But if you spoil him like I just
mentioned, he ain’t going anywhere, trust me. In this century I really doubt if
he finds a woman that will lay his clothes out for him, anyway. Hell he’ll be lucky
if he finds a woman that will cook him a meal and wash his funky draws. Teach those
sons of yours how to take care of themselves.
Boys like girls emulate the men in their lives, and like girls
who don’t have fathers, I would imagine it being just as hard for boys. There is so much negativity for them to get
into when there is no guidance from a man. There are drugs, gangs, stealing and
playing with guns and tragic accidents happen. Boys just as I told the girls in
my last blog, don’t father children until you know who you are, until you are
ready to be a father, not just a daddy. You need to love your baby momma so you
can give that unconditional love to your sons and daughters. The woman can’t save the future alone we need
you men too. We have to raise these children together. If the daddy’s ain’t around, get them into
karate classes, can’t afford go to the church, school and find programs for you
sons. There use to be a program called the big brother and big sisters, look
into that. I can’t stress it enough this is our children’s future, make strong
men.
As I said, the majorities of men gets up every morning and go
to work. They do what they have to, to pay the rent or mortgage and what other
bills that need paying. They are
considerate of the woman that also gets up every morning with him to go to her
job; he will prepare dinner and help the kids with their homework. We the woman
appreciate that from our men. If we have to go to work, then come home cook,
clean and take care to the kids needs too. What do we need a man for? Oh they
got toys for that.
We feel special when you hold the door open for us, or pull
the chair out for us to sit. I would
love for a man to massage my feet like Bill did on the Cobsy show. You can hold
our coats for us, and I think it’s sexy when a man stands in the store and
holds his woman’s pocketbook for her.
We like to hear the sweet words of endearment; we are suckers
for that shit. I’m not talking about getting it from players, we know sincere
from bull shit.
We like men to take charge and protect us. Do the heavy
lifting, take the trash out and mop the floor. We are delicate and want to be
treated as such.
You want us to treat you and do for you a certain way; we want
things from you too. Keep the romance in
your relationship with your woman. Take
her out for dinner, or bring something in so she doesn’t have to cook. But she
will enjoy going out better. She would like to go to a play, movies, a boat
ride whatever. You worked hard to get her; you have to work hard to keep her.
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